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The world is awash in money! Do you hear what that means? It is awash in money. It is flowing for everyone. It is like Niagara Falls. And most of you are showing up with your teaspoons. -- Abraham-Hicks



Smiling is infectious, You catch it like the flu. When someone smiled at me today, I started smiling too. I passed around the corner, and someone saw my grin. When he smiled I realized, I'd passed it to him. I thought about that smile, then I realized its worth. A single smile just like mine, could travel the earth. So, if you feel a smile begin, don't leave it undetected. Let's start an epidemic quick, and get the world infected!





Thursday, June 7, 2007

Positive Thoughts 14

I walk in boldness as my Creator loads me with benefits today. Bigger and better things are coming my way.

I can do anything through the power my Creator gives me (Phil. 4:13).

This is an awesome day! All people and things are aligned for today's adventures and abundant living is assured.

Diligence makes the difference. I am delighted with the dividends of doing my daily duties in a timely manner.

Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy! Exciting living is not an extra. Health and prosperity are essentials in walking with my Creator (III John 2).

The Spirit of the Lord goes before me and I ALWAYS: Take the right path, make the right decisions, follow the right pursuits and trust the right people.

Regardless of the opposing circumstances, I give richly and receive richly now.

I am in the process of positive change. Power, peace, and plenty are being poured out upon me.

My inner vision is always clear and focused as I trust my Creator to lead me.

I am divinely led and I am in harmony with the universe and at peace with myself.

The kingdom of Heaven is within me and I am divinely led to do and say the right things at the right time.

A new day, a new beginning and I am excited about the positive experiences that will be mine.

I will keep on course. Knowing that I empower others, keeps me kicking to win the race.

Life is a ball game. I joined the team and stepped up to the plate and started swinging. I am a big hit.

Imagination not image is who I am. What I see and what I think creates my destiny.

Gracious living is good. Giving to help others get what they need is a greater gift.

Family, friends and fun are fixtures in my movie camera. This feature film will be like me---a big success.

We must remain as close to the flowers, the grass, and the butterflies as the child is who is not yet so much taller than they are. -Friedrich Nietzsche

I don't think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains. -Anne Frank

Those who believe they can do something are probably right--and so are those who believe they can't. -Unknown

The first step is to "be," and "being" involves change. -Daniel N. Brown

Every man has three characters: that which he shows, that which he has, and that which he thinks he has. -Alphonse Karr

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as if nothing is a miracle, and the other is as if everything is a miracle. -Albert Einstein

Learn to pause ... or nothing worthwhile will catch up to you. -Doug King

One man has enthusiasm for 30 minutes, another for 30 days, but it is the man who has it for 30 years who makes a success of his life. -Edward B. Butler

Problems are only opportunities in work clothes. -Henry J. Kaiser

The true experience of bliss is without words. -Mother Meera

Confront challenges through inner strength and courage. -Barbara Ann Kipfer

The measure of a life, after all, is not its duration, but its donation. -Corrie ten Boom

No my friend, darkness is not everywhere, for here and there I find faces illuminated from within; paper lanterns among the dark trees. -Carole Borges

Take yourself and your creative life seriously. Make time for self-expression. Be disciplined. This is the way to develop your unique gifts and talents. -Christiane Northrup, M.D.

There is no point at which you can say, 'Well, I'm successful now. I might as well take a nap.' -Carrie Fisher

Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. -Erich Fromm

Beauty is about the improbable coming true suddenly. -Charles Simic

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Look at everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or last time. Then your time on earth will be filled with glory. -Betty Smith

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. -Mother Teresa

Dance like a tree in the wind. -Barbara Ann Kipfer

You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was. -Abraham Lincoln

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. -Lucille Ball

Anyone can look for fashion in a boutique or history in a museum. The creative person looks for history in a hardware store and fashion in an airport. -Robert Wieder

Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving. -Mary Bateson

Have compassion for your parents' childhoods. Know that you chose them because they were perfect for what you had to learn. Forgive them and set them free. -Louise L. Hay

Never go to a doctor whose office plants have died. -Erma Bombeck

Here's a task: Be the bearer of only good news today. In living out this task, note whether you find it difficult to maintain. And if so, discover why within yourself. -Caroline Myss and Peter Occhiogrosso

Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity. -General George S. Patton

I'd rather be a failure at something I enjoy than a success at something I hate. -George Burns

People are like stained glass windows: they sparkle and shine when the sun's out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is light within. -Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses. -Confucius

See all beings as enlightened, providing you with the education you need to awaken. Thank them. -Barbara Ann Kipfer

Youth is the gift of nature, but age is a work of art. -Garson Kanin

Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you. -Lao Tzu

Kites rise highest against the wind, not with it. -Winston Churchill

On with the dance; let joy be unconfined is my motto, whether there's any dance to dance or any joy to unconfine. -Mark Twain

Creativity comes from trust. Trust your instincts. -Rita Mae Brown

To hold, you must first open your hand. Let go. -Tao Te Ching

Forget regret, or life is yours to miss. -Jonathan Larson

A poem is a serious joke, a truth that has learned jujitsu. -William Stafford

THE PINNACLE Issue 18

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WELCOME TO ANOTHER EDITION OF THE PINNACLE
Issue 18

By Lisa Diane

"Tips, Strategies & Insights for Extraordinary Living" *******************************************************
"Recalculating!"

I've been having a lot of fun recently using a GPS system during my travels. Have you seen them? Basically, you type in your destination and this great little system helps you navigate to where you want to go. It will even tell you nearby restaurants, hotels and other points of interest.

There's a computer generated female voice that calls out directions, road names and each turn to make. For me this has been a totally empowering experience-- as I am usually geographically challenged.

But even more importantly, this little system is a very close parallel to our life experience.

Let me explain...

When you know where you want to go (your destination) all you need to do is type it in and the GPS system will guide you there.

If you miss a turn, get off on the wrong road or prefer to go another way for awhile--which happens A LOT with some drivers I know (who shall remain nameless)--the system simply says, "RECALCULATING" and immediately gives you the updated directions based on where you are now.

Because here's the thing-- the GPS system only cares about two specific points: Where you are NOW and where you want to GO. It doesn't care about where you were last year, last month or even 5 minutes ago. It doesn't care about where your friends are, other places you might or might not enjoy going, where you've been in the past or where you might go in the future. It doesn't even care if you mess up and take a wrong turn or get on the wrong road altogether.

All the GPS system cares about is where you are NOW and where you want to GO. And it will ALWAYS give you a route to arrive at your destination as long as you know where you want to go--no matter how many times you mess up or get off track along the way. (Believe me, I know. I hear "recalculating" a lot!)

The great news is-- this is as true in life as it is with a GPS!

It doesn't matter where you were in the past, where your friends are or your family thinks you should be, how many times you get side-tracked, or completely off track and going in the opposite direction-- all you need to be concerned about is where you are TODAY and where you want to BE.

Because THIS MOMENT is your only point of power. Nothing else matters. Even if you've lived poor, sick, unhappy, unhealthy and generally miserable for the last 50 years of your life--everything can turn around FAST by simply being aware of these two very powerful points relativity-- WHERE YOU ARE NOW AND WHERE YOU WANT TO BE.

Your Source, Your Creator is like YOUR PERSONAL GPS system. And if you will simply focus in this moment NOW on exactly where you want to GO (forgetting all the other stuff that means nothing) you will be called along just the right path at just the right time to arrive just where you want to be.

The key, as always, is KNOWING what you want (what you want to have, do and be). If you have a clear destination and you can place your trust in that all-knowing personal GPS system right here waiting to show you the way, you'll find that your life takes on a whole new feel. Success, wealth, health, happiness, fun and great relationships are yours. All you have to do is ASK for it.

And if you mess up along the way?

No problem. Just close your eyes and hear the words, "Recalculating!"... knowing that regardless of where you are there's always a path that will lead you to where you want to be.

Spend a few minutes right now and program in your destination. Get clear on where you're headed and then focus on taking actions, dwelling on thoughts and speaking words each day that lead you closer to achieving that goal.

Forget the past and all the other junk that doesn't deserve even a moment of your attention. Use the PRESENT MOMENT (your point of power) to follow your bliss and you'll soon realize that the journey AND the destination are full of fun surprises and abundance at every turn.

To Living The Good Life,
Lisa Diane
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Monday, June 4, 2007

The Wallet

As I walked home one freezing day, I stumbled on a wallet someone had lost in the street. I picked it up and looked inside to find some identification so I could call the owner. But the wallet contained only three dollars and a crumpled letter that looked as if it had been in there for years.

The envelope was worn and the only thing that was legible on it was the return address. I started to open the letter, hoping to find some clue. Then I saw the dateline--1924. The letter had been written almost sixty years ago.

It was written in a beautiful feminine handwriting on powder blue stationery with a little flower in the left-hand corner. It was a "Dear John" letter that told the recipient, whose name appeared to be Michael, that the writer could not see him any more because her mother forbade it. Even so, she wrote that she would always love him.

It was signed, Hannah.

It was a beautiful letter, but there was no way except for the name Michael, that the owner could be identified. Maybe if I called information, the operator could find a phone listing for the address on the envelope.

"Operator," I began, "this is an unusual request. I'm trying to find the owner of a wallet that I found. Is there anyway you can tell me if there is a phone number for an address that was on an envelope in the wallet?"

She suggested I speak with her supervisor, who hesitated for a moment then said, "Well, there is a phone listing at that address, but I can't give you the number." She said, as a courtesy, she would call that number, explain my story and would ask them if they wanted her to connect me. I waited a few minutes and then she was back on the line. "I have a party who will speak with you."

I asked the woman on the other end of the line if she knew anyone by the name of Hannah. She gasped, "Oh! We bought this house from a family who had a daughter named Hannah. But that was 30 years ago!"

"Would you know where that family could be located now?" I asked.

"I remember that Hannah had to place her mother in a nursing home some years ago," the woman said. "Maybe if you got in touch with them they might be able to track down the daughter."

She gave me the name of the nursing home and I called the number. They told me the old lady had passed away some years ago but they did have a phone number for where they thought the daughter might be living.

I thanked them and phoned. The woman who answered explained that Hannah herself was now living in a nursing home.

This whole thing was stupid, I thought to myself. Why was I making such a big deal over finding the owner of a wallet that had only three dollars and a letter that was almost 60 years old?

Nevertheless, I called the nursing home in which Hannah was supposed to be living and the man who answered the phone told me, "Yes, Hannah is staying with us."

Even though it was already 10 p.m., I asked if I could come by to see her. "Well," he said hesitatingly, "if you want to take a chance, she might be in the day room watching television."

I thanked him and drove over to the nursing home. The night nurse and a guard greeted me at the door. We went up to the third floor of the large building. In the day room, the nurse introduced me to Hannah.

She was a sweet, silver-haired old timer with a warm smile and a twinkle in her eye.

I told her about finding the wallet and showed her the letter. The second she saw the powder blue envelope with that little flower on the left, she took a deep breath and said, "Young man, this letter was the last contact I ever had with Michael."

She looked away for a moment deep in thought and then said Softly, "I loved him very much. But I was only 16 at the time and my mother felt I was too young. Oh, he was so handsome. He looked like Sean Connery, the actor."

"Yes," she continued. "Michael Goldstein was a wonderful person. If you should find him, tell him I think of him often. And," she hesitated for a moment, almost biting her lip, "tell him I still love him. You know," she said smiling as tears began to well up in her eyes, "I never did marry. I guess no one ever matched up to Michael..."

I thanked Hannah and said good-bye. I took the elevator to the first floor and as I stood by the door, the guard there asked, "Was the old lady able to help you?"

I told him she had given me a lead. "At least I have a last name. But I think I'll let it go for a while. I spent almost the whole day trying to find the owner of this wallet."

I had taken out the wallet, which was a simple brown leather case with red lacing on the side. When the guard saw it, he said, "Hey, wait a minute! That's Mr. Goldstein's wallet. I'd know it anywhere with that right red lacing. He's always losing that wallet. I must have found it in the halls at least three times."

"Who's Mr. Goldstein?" I asked as my hand began to shake.

"He's one of the old timers on the 8th floor. That's Mike Goldstein's wallet for sure. He must have lost it on one of his walks."

I thanked the guard and quickly ran back to the nurse's office. I told her what the guard had said. We went back to the elevator and got on. I prayed that Mr. Goldstein would be up.

On the eighth floor, the floor nurse said, "I think he's still in the day room. He likes to read at night. He's a darling old man."

We went to the only room that had any lights on and there was a man reading a book. The nurse went over to him and asked if he had lost his wallet. Mr. Goldstein looked up with surprise, put his hand in his back pocket and said, "Oh, it is missing!"

"This kind gentleman found a wallet and we wondered if it could be yours?"

I handed Mr. Goldstein the wallet and the second he saw it, he smiled with relief and said, "Yes, that's it! It must have dropped out of my pocket this afternoon. I want to give you a reward."

"No, thank you," I said. "But I have to tell you something. I read the letter in the hope of finding out who owned the wallet."

The smile on his face suddenly disappeared. "You read that letter?"

"Not only did I read it, I think I know where Hannah is."

He suddenly grew pale. "Hannah? You know where she is? How is she? Is she still as pretty as she was? Please, please tell me," he begged.

"She's fine...just as pretty as when you knew her." I said softly.

The old man smiled with anticipation and asked, "Could you tell me where she is? I want to call her tomorrow." He grabbed my hand and said, "You know something, mister, I was so in love with that girl that when that letter came, my life literally ended. I never married. I guess I've always loved her. "

"Mr. Goldstein," I said, "come with me."

We took the elevator down to the third floor. The hallways were darkened and only one or two little night-lights lit our way to the day room where Hannah was sitting alone watching the television. The nurse walked over to her.

"Hannah," she said softly, pointing to Michael, who was waiting with me in the doorway. "Do you know this man?"

She adjusted her glasses, looked for a moment, but didn't say a word. Michael said softly, almost in a whisper, "Hannah, it's Michael. Do you remember me?"

She gasped, "Michael! I don't believe it! Michael! It's you! My Michael!"

He walked slowly towards her and they embraced. The nurse and I left with tears streaming down our faces.

"See," I said. "See how the Good Lord works! If it's meant to be, it will be."

About three weeks later I got a call at my office from the nursing home. "Can you break away on Sunday to attend a wedding? Michael and Hannah are going to tie the knot!"

It was a beautiful wedding with all the people at the nursing home dressed up to join in the celebration. Hannah wore a light beige dress and looked beautiful. Michael wore a dark blue suit and stood tall. They made me their best man.

The hospital gave them their own room and if you ever wanted to see a 76-year-old bride and a 79-year-old groom acting like two teenagers, you had to see this couple.

A perfect ending for a love affair that had lasted nearly 60 years.

-- Author Unknown

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Positive Thoughts 13

Health and prosperity are mine today. I draw near to my Creator who provides these blessings. (III John 2)

I make a habit of looking things over instead of overlooking them.

There is power in praise. I will empower many people today by focusing on their positive personality traits.

I love my work and my joy and smile spread to everyone around me.

My words create riches. I ensure success by walking and living my word everyday.

Today I rest in His presence, knowing that my Creator has everything under His control.

I am empowered! Everyone and everything I touch is energized and elevated to excel.

I am unique. Freely I use my God-given graces and gifts to bless others in ways no one else can.

I am one with God's plan and I am excited about what will happen as we walk together today.

I am a person of purpose. Today I will serve others in action and deed.

I am creating my destiny. Today I create love, peace and prosperity in thought, word, feeling and action.

What I think about I bring about. I am focused today on sowing good seed that yields peace and plenty.

The spirit of success is now working in me and I am a channel of blessings to everyone I encounter.

Rejoice today! Our creator has given us a spirit of power and love and the right mind to exercise these gifts.

You can't escape from life, you escape into it. -Kitty Carlisle Hart

It's not whether you get knocked down, it's whether you get back up. -Vince Lombardi

Prayer is not asking for what you think you want, but asking to be changed in ways you can't imagine. -Kathleen Norris

Nothing would astonish me, after all these years, except to be understood. -Ellen Glasgow

Each day we make deposits in the memory banks of our children. -Charles Swindoll

They conquer who believe they can. -John Dryden

Every tree and plant in the meadow seemed to be dancing, those with average eyes would see as fixed and still. -Rumi

Enthusiasm is everything. It must be taut and vibrating like a guitar string. -Pele

Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution. -Norman Vincent Peale

Disillusion is the last illusion. -Wallace Stevens

Kindness has converted more sinners than zeal, eloquence, or learning. -Frederick W. Faber

You need chaos in your soul to give birth to a dancing star. -Friedrich Nietzsche

When a heart breaks it also opens. -Jeff Arch

Maturity is the ability to do a job whether or not you are supervised, to carry money without spending it, and to bear an injustice without wanting to get even. -Ann Landers

Courage is resistance to fear, not absence of it. -Mark Twain

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear. -Ambrose Redmoon

A person who says, "I'm enlightened" probably isn't. -Baba Ram Dass

Man may dismiss compassion from his heart, but God never will. -William Cowper

You must be the change you wish to see in the world. -Gandhi

Pass On

Everything that comes to us, comes to pass or, more accurately, for us to pass on. Not just the money in our pocket, but wisdom, objects, ideas, even opportunities, all come to us, so that, at the right moment, we can pass them on. This is called flow. Being in the flow means being aware that the river of life is flowing to us at every moment. Being in the flow means accepting whatever comes and putting it to good use, before passing it on. Going with the flow means allowing whatever comes to move on freely, without holding on in any way. If we do not pass on, we are trying to block the flow, and that's when we feel pressure in our life. Pressure is always self-inflicted. Every time you feel 'under pressure' look at what you need to release and to pass on to someone else. Once you do you can ...relax...again. Peace~Nanette

Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. -Anna Quindlen

Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous. -Unknown

What is a friend? A single soul shared by two people. -Aristotle

A man is not old as long as he is seeking something. -Jean Rostand

Your surroundings, home, personal care, pets, clothing, and body are all reflections of how you see and express yourself. Do these reflect your true self? -Christiane Northrup, M.D.

Feel that you have enough, and your sense of hunger will diminish. -Barbara Ann Kipfer

Positive Thoughts 12

The Source of my love supply is endless and my Creator constantly replenishes me today as I love others.

I am awesome! No one can dictate how I should look, feel or act.Today I am proving that my Creator's plan for me is perfect.

I free myself from all destructive fear and doubt and receive what is mine today.

There is a divine solution to every situation. Victory over all of today's circumstances is mine. I accept and claim them now!

I am thriving. The best is here for me to create peace and prosperity daily.

I am decisive. I decide what I want and I go for it. Diligence gets things done and doers are winners.

I am proactive! I refuse to procrastinate and am using my time efficiently to become more productive.

I am a person of action. I make things happen by doing first things first, one at a time.

I am triumphant! I take total control over today's ventures and terminate the things that would hinder my peace and prosperity.

I am a miracle and have the power and strength to make my dreams come true

I draw strength from God to fulfill my dreams with ease and grace.

I am a vital and important part of the miracle called life.

I always believe in myself. Because I am, I can!

Whoever can see through all fear will always be safe. -Tao Te Ching

Forget mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you're going to do now and do it. Today is your lucky day. -Will Durant

Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterward. -Vernon Law

God brings men into deep waters not to drown them, but to cleanse them. -Aughey

You've got to be careful if you don't know where you're going 'cause you might not get there. -Yogi Berra

Pain is no evil unless it conquers us. -George Eliot

"Mile by mile it's a trial; yard by yard it's hard; but inch by inch it's a cinch." -Anonymous

What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything? -Vincent Van Gogh

After you ask for guidance--Listen! -Barbara Ann Kipfer

The proverb warns that 'You should not bite the hand that feeds you.' But maybe you should, if it prevents you from feeding yourself. -Thomas Szasz

Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got. -Janis Joplin

The no-mind not-thinks no-thoughts about no-things. -The Buddha

It's never crowded along the extra mile. -Wayne Dyer

In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make. -The Beatles

What great thing would you attempt if you knew you could not fail? -Robert Schuller

Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. -Sonia Choquette

I am happy and content because I think I am. -Alain-Rene Lesage

If you are doing your best, you will not have time to worry about failure. -Robert Hillyer

There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. -Anais Nin

There is nothing better than the encouragement of a good friend. -Katharine Butler Hathaway

Rest in places of harmony--the sky, the ocean, the breath. -Barbara Ann Kipfer

The more perfect we are the more gentle and quiet we become towards the defects of others. -Joseph Addison

A sense of humor is part of the art of leadership, of getting along with people, of getting things done. - Dwight D. Eisenhower, 1890-1969, 34th President of the United States

Regret for wasted time is more wasted time. -Mason Cooley, 1927-2002, American Aphorist

Expect the best, plan for the worst, and prepare to be surprised. -Denis Waitley, American Author/Speaker/Peak Performance Expert

Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers don't like to do. -Albert Gray

We all live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all different and yet the same. -Anne Frank

Human Being

We spend most of our lives running after things, doing things. We forget that being comes before doing. Those who remember this secret make an effort to "be" and discover that when they stop and observe, life helps and brings whatever is needed. Learning to be is learning to be at peace. It is our most fundamental nature. We are human beings, not human doings. Peace~Nanette

We do not see things as they are. We see them as we are. -The Talmud

We must make the choices that enable us to fulfill the deepest capacities of our real selves. -Thomas Merton

The days are too short even for love; how can there be enough time for quarreling? -Margaret Gatty

You can have it all. You just can't have it all at one time. -Oprah Winfrey

When I orbited the Earth in a spaceship, I saw for the first time how beautiful our planet is. Mankind, let us preserve and increase this beauty, and not destroy it! -Yuri Gagarin

There is no such thing in anyone's life as an unimportant day. -Alexander Woollcott

Elbow grease is the best polish. -English Proverb

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go. – T.S. Eliot

How rare and wonderful is that flash of a moment when we realize we have discovered a friend. -William Rostler

Sunday, May 13, 2007

THE PINNACLE

By Lisa Diane

"Tips, Strategies & Insights for Extraordinary Living" *******************************************************

"What Are You Looking At?"

Ryan and I went to see the eye doctor yesterday. It was one of those things we've both been putting off for far too long. Those long hours staring at a computer screen were definitely catching up with me.

Anyway, Ryan went first. Then it was my turn. I sat down and the first thing the doctor said was, "I can't believe Ryan has been going around without glasses... he hasn't seen clearly for months now."

At first I didn't think much of it. Ryan lost his glasses awhile back (a loooong while back) and I knew he needed a new pair but it wasn't something he ever made a big deal about.

So when the doctor rambled on about his vision I was a little surprised. But then the real shocker...

The doctor said, "Let me show you how Ryan's been seeing" and he pulled out these two little circle glasses and put them over my eyes.

Whoa!

First I thought he was joking.

I couldn't see anything. It was like watching one of those "scrambled" cable channels on TV.

I was in shock. How could this be? How could anyone possibly exist with vision like this? I mean, I couldn't walk across the room. (Wanna guess who drove home?)

That's when it got interesting... very interesting.

The doctor explained that Ryan's BRAIN had actually been working over-time putting together pictures and filling in the gaps from what his eyes were unable to see.

In other words, his brain was doing most of the seeing for him.

Imagine that.

I was stunned. I knew our brains were powerful instruments but to think that Ryan's brain actually took the fuzzy pictures and made it so he could operate was an amazing feat.

So that got me thinking... You see, our world--or how we view our world--is determined more by what's going on INSIDE of us than what's actually going on OUTSIDE.

In other words, you and I could both look at the same scene and report back two different (sometimes VERY different) accounts of what we saw.

Why?

Because what we see isn't just what we see... it's what we perceive.

Have you heard the phrase, "Perception is reality?"

In the case of Ryan's eyes--his brain really helped him out. It allowed him to continue to see when his eyes couldn't deliver.

But we aren't always so lucky.

Sometimes (more often than you'd like to think) our perception of what's real is what keeps us from having what we really want.

I always heard...

"You have to SEE it to BELIEVE it."

But the truth is...

"You have to BELIEVE it to SEE it!"

That's why some people continue to miss out on success, health, wealth, happiness, that great career, that incredible relationship... or whatever it is they crave.

They can only "see" life... opportunities, experiences, people and events... through their "inner eye". So regardless of how "perfect" something may appear to one person-- another can see only obstacles, short-comings, lack and disappointment.

One of my favor quotes by Wayne Dyer is,

"When you change the way you look at things the things you look at will change."

There's age-old wisdom in those words. It's a life-changer when you really "get it."

So here's the challenge...

Look at those areas in your life you've been struggling with... trying like heck to change but seeing little to no results.

Instead of looking for circumstances to change on the OUTSIDE, spend some time looking INWARD.

No outside force can keep you from your highest good. No boss, government, family member, friend, church, school, ANYONE or ANYTHING has any power over you.

The source of your problems... the reasons why you can't seem to make that breakthrough... it's not "out there" somewhere.

Remember, "You'll only SEE IT when you BELIEVE IT."

So change the way you look at things (by eliminating the negative, lack-minded, low energy beliefs)... create NEW, empowering beliefs that support what you WANT instead of perpetuate what you don't want... and your life WILL change.

-- I guarantee it!

To Life Without Limits, Lisa Diane
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A Lonely Dog

I wish someone would tell me what it is That I've done wrong.

Why do I have to stay chained up and be Left alone so long?

They seemed so glad to have me when I came here as a pup.

There were so many things we'd do While I was growing up.

The Master said he'd train me as a Companion and a friend.

The Mistress said she'd never fear To be left alone again.

The children said they'd feed me and Brush me every day.

They'd play with me and walk me If I would only stay.

But now the Master "hasn't time"

The Mistress says I shed- She doesn't want me in the house Not even to be fed.

The Children never walk me.

They always say, "Not now" I wish that I could please them.

Won't someone tell me how? All I had, you see, was love.

I wish they would explain Why they said they wanted mine, And then left it on a chain.

-- Author Unknown